Is your dog tuning you out? Effective canine communication

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·         Have you ever wondered, "Why does my dog do that when he knows he's not supposed to?"  "Why does my dog ignore me?"  "Why does my dog refuse to walk on a loose leash?"  "Why does my dog eat my stuff when I'm away?' 

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·         Do your answers to yourself sound something like this? "He knows better; he's just doing that for spite." "He's so happy to be out, that's why he pulls on the leash."  "He's ignoring me; that's the stubborn streak in him."  "He gets mad when I leave him, that's why he eats my stuff..."

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·         Ever stop to think about the reasoning behind your answers and realize that all of those thoughts are brought about by the human mind and emotions; things that the dog doesn't operate with, and therefore, can't possibly abide by?

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·         Learning how a dog communicates, and responding to him in his own innate language is a gift that all dog owners should bestow upon their canine friends.  It's not as hard as some might think; we're constantly giving off signals to our dogs---often they are the wrong ones, which lead to many complications.  Learning how to properly and effectively communicate with our canine friends is easy, fun, and a great way to get lasting training results.

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·         Canine Ability Dog Training addresses these common issues and provides dog owners with an clear, concise way to effectively communicate with their canine family members. Want to learn more?  Contact us today to learn how we can bring out the ABILITY in your dog! 

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How DARE you call my dog a...DOG!!??

There was a question posed recently by a dog lover's page on Facebook: "Do you treat your dog like a dog or a human?"  There were hundreds of answers; everyone said how much they loved their dog, but not one said they treated their dog like a dog.

While I find treating my dogs like the dogs they were created to be, (and not humanizing them) to be the kindest form of respect I can bestow on them, I'm often brought up short by clients who are absolutely abhorred when I point out that their furred-family member is, in fact, a dog.

Treating a dog like a person is unfair and sets them up to fail. Even more upsetting is when people get frustrated at their "babies" for not understanding what is required of them and punish them in human-like ways (time-outs, spanking, yelling) when they don't react in the human way that was expected.  Not surprisingly, these discipline methods don't work with dogs, and only frustrate our furred-family members to no end. This is the cause of nearly ALL the calls I am brought in to evaluate--people treating their dogs like humans, and getting frustrated when their human ways don't work to correct canine "errant" behavior. 

It is an indisputable fact that dogs operate with an entirely different communication/operating system than we do. So based upon that fact, it stands to reason that in order to have a good relationship with our canine friends and family members, we absolutely need to treat them differently! I feel that the best way to show that we truly love our dogs is to take the time to learn to communicate with them and understand their ways---never forcing them to learn ours.

Dogs are dogs.  They are amazingly, wonderful creatures---beautiful on the outside and inside; forever versatile and fun-loving. Their greatest gift in life is to be with their owners, upon whom they lavish an unmatchable, unconditional love that stems from an honest, compassionate place---never from ulterior motives.  They are self-proclaimed sitters for our children, and most would lay down their lives for us in a heartbeat. I believe dogs to have the best moral compasses and uphold the best qualities (such as loyalty, devotion, bravery---they are loving, insightful, joyful, funny, forgiving), the list could go on and on.  Dogs are not vindictive.  Dog's don't lie or steal. Dogs don't kill (without a darn good reason). Dogs don't pretend to be something they are not--only humans do these things.

"Dog" is not a derogatory word. So why is it so hard for some people to admit that their furred-family members are, in fact, dogs?

As for my own dogs, and the dogs I'm blessed to have as clients; I love and respect them for exactly who they are; not for who I would like, or need them to be.  I feel like its my job to become partly dog in order to effectively communicate, rehabilitate, and bond with them--not the other way around.

What are your thoughts on the subject??

Leadership training---Canine Ability tip of the day

Looking for ways to earn your dog's respect and influence his behavior more calmly and effectively?  Leadership is a key factor in influencing your dog, and solving/preventing many unwanted behaviors.  There are many ways to define leadership with your dog, and I'm going to go through them one by one over the course of the next few weeks.

Scientific learning theory dictates that if you change the environment, you change the dog (or human, or whatever species you're modifying the behavior of).  In keeping with environmental control, I want you to try something very simple, that will speak volumes to your dog.  But before you try this, I want you to promise that you'll write to me and share the results of this exercise.  Okay? Once we get some results of this exercise, I'll explain why its so powerful..and that will be a golden key to unlocking many of the secrets of your dog's behavior. 

Most owners, upon arriving home show great excitement to their dog. Perhaps they talk in a high-pitched, excited voice, or have a running commentary with them about their day, petting them, playing with them and allowing them to jump for joy with or on them. (Many of you will be very surprised to learn what you are actually saying to your dog when you do this!)

Ready for a significant change (for the better) in the way your dog relates to you? For one week, I want to challenge you to change the way you interact with your dog upon your arrival home, or after any time of separation.  Okay...here's what you do: Upon arriving home, or after any significant time of separation with your dog, take at least five minutes to ignore him.  That's right.  Ignore him (there's a scientific method to this madness...and your dog already knows this exercise; trust me!) 

If he's crated and he barks at you from inside his crate, do not let him out until he settles.  Once he's quiet, go ahead and open his crate, but walk away and don't interact (pet, talk to, look at) until he's as quiet and relaxed (The dog must show NO signs of excitement before you pay any attention to him, or the entire exercise will fail.  Each day you will notice it takes less and less time for him to settle...ooops!  Giving away too much information!).   You can let him out to potty in the interim (just no talking, petting or eye contact), and when he comes back in, the rules are the same until he's completely and totally quiet and relaxed---then you can invite him to come over to you for some quiet bonding time.

That's it!  Simple right?  I can guarantee you, that as simple as this sounds, it will be a profound statement that you are making to your dog---one he will innately understand and respond to.  Now don't forget---write to me and let me know how it goes!  Explanation and further expansion of the theory to come...






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Canine Ability tip of the day

 

 Canine Ability tip of the day-- You are never more a leader (or follower) than you are at the end of your dog's leash. Mastery of loose leash walking sends a clear signal to your dog who the leader in your relationship is. Taking control over your dog's most primal activity will enhance effective communication, improve your relationship, and help to build a firm foundation upon which further training can take place...and without which, the former cannot be achieved.

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Welcome to the brand new Canine Ability blog! I'm on a misson to teach dog owners how to bring out the ABILITY in their dogs!

 

Hello!  Welcome to my brand new blog!  My name is Kimberly and I am the owner/trainer at Canine Ability Dog Training.  Canine Ability is dog training....and SO much more! I'm currently offering award-winning training, pack walks, and group training (in middle Tennessee); and seminars, workshops and motivational canine entertainment (nationwide) in order to help dog owners bridge the gap in communication and bring out their dog's true ABILITY! 

I'm in the business of saving and improving canine lives.  With canine homelessness/euthanasia on the rise, I strive to take the cases that other trainers have given up on because I know each of those dogs has innate talents just waiting to be tapped. I am very passionate about my dogs and my clients' dogs; and feel utterly blessed to be given the opportunity to work with each one of my canine clients.

Dogs bless us in so many ways!  They provide unconditional love, compassionate understanding, and never ending support.  On a primal level, they are highly social animals, adhering to an advanced system of hierarchy that is forever changing to fit the needs of the entire pack. Dogs communicate through a very complex system of inaudible, yet highly effective body language that enables the pack to remain stable, effective, and safe.. 

When we bring dogs into our home, we become their "pack."  Thousands of years of domesticating the dog has not eliminated the dog's primal instincts or innate behaviors.  Dogs always have been, and always will be dogs. No matter how much we pamper them, humanize them, or even dress them up---a dog will always remain a dog. 

Dogs act like dogs, think like dogs, and communicate like dogs--this is why the greatest gift we can provide for our canine friends is to learn and communicate with them using their own, innate language. 

Without full comprehension of  canine language, owners often project confusing, or even hostile messages to their dog---and often get upset when this conflict results in the dog's "shutting down" (ignoring commands), or even aggression. 

Bridging this gap in communication can bring out the ABILITY in any dog---setting the stage for a new and effective relationship that is built on trust and mutual understanding. Taking this principal a step farther, we challenge owners to take their relationship with their dog to a whole new level in order to get the most of of the canine/human bond.

This blog will address common dog behavioral issues, provide interesting case studies, helpful tips, and much more!  Have a doggie dilemma?  Email me at: CanineAbility@gmail.com and ask away!  Your question could be the subject of my next post! Take a moment to subscribe to our blog (with the links provided on the right sidebar), so you don't miss any doggone good times!